I am very chilled.

Did I insult Blue Horizon again? Sorry... I am 
bad at that. We go through this, the two of us, 
every once and a while.He likes to spar with me 
when he thinks that I get out of line ;-) 

I always end up the bad guy, and an asshole, 
simply because Blue is a nicer person then me. He 
wins hands down on charm points and defending 
people that he thinks that I've insulted. Oh no, 
this is not the first time. Although, he has had 
more to say this last round. I don't mind.

I don't mean anything personally at all. For 
example, I do not think that he is a racist, 
ignorant, or anything negative. Although, he 
probably took my argument as personal, it is not 
meant to be. It was simply a bad analogy to use.

I just don't think that he understands that my 
opinions are not meant to slight anyones 
opinions, including his. I kept offering 
suggestions, but to no avail. I can get pissed 
too! And I will say blunt things... He can too.

And if I feel that my true intent is not being 
understood, I try to drive home the point, sorry 
if you think that is too intense, I cannot help 
it.

 We are like those opposite poles on some issues 
that is for sure -- North and South, Ying and 
Yang, etc., aren't we Blue? We both can go over 
the top at times...maybe we can agree to that.  
Or, should I just speak for myself? ^-^

I can "feel" what he is trying to say, and I 
don't mean any disrespect, but he is wrong with 
his assumptions this time, about what I said and 
what it meant. 

Sometimes posts do not come through clearly 
because you cannot catch the inflection in voice 
or see any body language. Sometimes words read 
come off...well, insulting even if they were 
meant to be helpful. Maybe this is the case. I 
dunno.

E