I haven't had as many as you seem to be having, 
but when it does happen... it really stinks.

What I really loathe is when a person lies about 
their excuse.  I've heard some stories from folks 
who get messages saying they are the spouse of 
the bidder, since s/he went into a coma.  (Hey, 
it COULD happen, but if your spouse were in a 
coma, would you be by the computer?)

Anyway... my latest problem is with a "newbie" 
harassing me.  I cancelled their bid with a fair 
reason, yet I get called a "stupid American -
ucktard".  I'm going to be reporting them to eBay 
later today, since I am sure their "new" account 
is illegal as well.  ^_^

Anyway... all I can say to you Mina is hang in 
there.  ^_^