this question is for all sellers and especially 
dealers, who I know deal with immense numbers of 
deadbeat buyers. I have in the past two months 
alone had a record high of people backing out of 
auctions, private sales, and offers they made on 
my cels. to be frank, it is making me into a 
bitter and paranoid seller, which is not what I 
want to become. just in the past two days I have 
lost three sales, so I am totally scared that 
I'll lose my fourth as well. in every case, I try 
to handle the situation as calmly as possible, 
though depending on how extreme the case is since 
I am only human. ;_;

I don't understand why so many people back out of 
so many transactions each week in this hobby. it 
frustrates me, and I wonder how dealers deal with 
this sort of frustration in bulk amounts? I am 
finding myself in a place I would rather not be. 
trying...to...think...positively...

if you can show me cels of frustration with your 
replies, that would be a great stress reliever. 
^_^

/Mina