I can understand what you mean by being 
predisposed to fat increase or low metabolism 
rate to burn fat(cells research on going..) But, 
you can agree (I think) that, it is not healthy 
to be too fat to the point of obesity. This has 
nothing to do with personality. Most of the round 
people that I know are quite interesting (Santa 
Claus for example :-) And that has nothing to do 
with their size, but with their hearts. But 
everyone is on a case by case basis with me 
anyway. 

But "tough love" dictates that if I see someone 
in pain, and I know that there is a way for them 
to get out of that situation, knowingly or not, I 
will say something. I guess I'd temporary make 
some enemies, but later if they mature they can 
point to the fact that it was good for them for 
me to say or do so, if it provided them with 
motivation for change. I'd hate to visit them in 
the hospital later on with diabetes, 
hypertension, or worse, because they couldn't get 
weight relief and I just stood around and let 
them get that way without opening my mouth about 
it. 

I posted this above, but check out the link above 
or below:

http://www.cnn.com/2003/HEALTH/diet.fitness/12/24/
battling.obesity.ap/index.html

Happy Holidays!!

E