Well, now you are lumping my thoughts together. 
The idea of these ratings having a reflection on 
self-worth wa directed at the original post in 
this thread. The fact that I did not like the 
thread where folks begged others to review their 
sites is another story. I just don't see why 
folks care so much about what others think about 
their collection. If you took it personally, I'm 
sorry.