Hi. Actually I agree about not putting someone's 
name on the internet that is why I did it 
anonymously in case she wished to not identify 
herself. I removed the auction link and email 
adresses as well as names from all my emails. If 
she wished to have posted in response with an 
anonymous name then I would have been fine with 
it, it was not to embarrass her but to make sense 
of what happened. I do not agree about 
the "adding fuel" comment because we got the 
opposite ending, we ended up being on the same 
page and worked it out :)