ugh...I forgot how much I hate eBay.  I just had 
a lot of cels end on eBay & (they just ended 
yesterday) so far I have 7 people emailing me 
saying they don't want the item & won't be 
paying.  They changed their mind, they couldn't 
retract their bid, their mother, brother, cousin, 
sister, friend, girlfriend, etc. changed their 
mind, they don't have the money, etc.!  

My question is, should I leave them negative 
feedback?  If you bid on something it is a legal 
contract!  If I bid on something & I later decide 
I don't want that is my bad luck, I still have to 
pay for it and I do.  

I have already told 4 people that if they don't 
pay I will leave negative feedback & file non-
paying bidder reports per eBay's policy but I am 
getting more & more emails.  I am afraid what 
will be in my inbox tonight.  ^^;;

What would you do?  I have a perfect feedback 
rating (the one neutral is a really old positive 
from a person no longer with eBay.  Now they just 
leave it positive, before they converted it to 
neutral :P)  Should I just ignore it?  I am 
really paranoid about my feedback rating & I 
don't want any negative or neutral.  One person 
has already said if I don't let them cancel they 
will leave me negative feedback.

Two people have offered to pay all eBay fees, 
etc. but still won't pay their bids.  

I /know/ that someone else must be dealing with 
this, how do you go about it?  I really don't 
know how to handle this as three people are 
people I have dealt with before.  There must be 
some solution I am not seeing because I am 
getting upset about it.  Any & all help would be 
appreciated!

If you don't want to post here, please email me 
at ryen@ryen.net
Thanks!
Anna