I have gotten into this discussion before 
reguarding the "Rape Fantasy".  No woman actually 
wants to be raped... but it's when you have 
Pierce Brosnan tying you up... it gets a little 
fun!!  

Anyway... I am sorry that you find the bondage 
thing so vile.  I know a lot of people (Mostly 
married couples) that play the bondage games and 
are quite content with them.  Hey... it's not for 
me, but who am I to judge what they feel is good 
for them?

I don't feel ashamed.  I am sitting here drawing 
a Yaoi scene right now and DAMN is it hot.  I own 
SEVERAL Yaoi doujinshi's and will own more.  And 
while there is a whole movement against this type 
of thing... there are clubs that are FOR this 
type of thing as well.  

I wish I could help you to understand what makes 
it a turn on.  But I really don't have the words 
for it.  I am on a few Yaoi mailing lists and 
they are 90% women.  My husband loves to see two 
women kissing... I love to see two men kissing. 
The best I can say is... To each his own.

Jennifer