Rock on Sunflower! I agree 100% with your post. 
Whether he (Drac) was a patron of the bar is 
irrelevant to the discussion at hand. I have 
homosexual and lesbian friends, but that doesn't 
make me a lesbian! The 'coward' was trying to 
pull a 'guilt by association' trick.

There _are_ people who enjoy being tied up, hit, 
spanked, cut, berated, whipped, etc etc. It's not 
up to me to make them defend their preferences. 
For example, I cannot stand cooked apples. That 
may sound completely off the wall to most people, 
and I don't have a 'valid' reason for why i 
don't, except that I don't. Sure, I don't think 
that hitting or pain should be a part of sex, but 
if YOU do, and you and your partner are legal 
consenting adults, I don't have any right to 
persecute you based on my opinion of what is 
morally right/socially acceptable, etc etc.

kylaria77