I have a lot to say about this, hopefully I wont
get into trouble, even though I can feel it
coming. This took two parts to say it all.
Hello Eric, and everyone here tonight,
I just read some of the things above, and well,
what can I say? It's this reason that I myself
am forced to lurk on this message board. I know
exactly who, and what to expect from here, and
how and when and where to say what things. I am
actually a well known member of this board, not a
very popular one, who has now had to make this
identity to hide under, as well as change my
posting manners totally around, just to be able
to stay in this 'community'. I dont mind though,
as long as I can stay around for the joy of the
hobby. I dont like to see fighting, especially
when it's over someone with a valid, or not
valid, complaint and/or question. YES, we were
ALL new at this at one time.
Eric, sorry for the misunderstandings on this
board that you have encountered. If you would
listen to my advice, you must be very mindful
about what you post here. Posts full of emotion
are not a good thing. Anger and frustration are
not well accepted here. It's sad, but, it's
true. I used to do the same thing, and I have
all but been shunned because of it. So, here I
am, wearing my mask, and hoping I can talk
respectfully with people from now on. I
understand your strife with Celga, and sniping is
a well known tactic in the cel bizz. I got
sniped on a dream cel a few months ago, and it
really killed me for a few days. But, if you
cant beat em, all I can say is join em. It isnt
a nice thing to do, but, it's the only thing you
CAN do in this now very aggressive hobby. It's
become a matter of money, and not love for the
cels.
I was really taken with one of your comments
about friends and enemies around here, and it hit
pretty deep with me. No one here EVER intends to
make enemies. It just happens....I dont even
know why--over pieces of plastic we act hateful
to eachother. I have been outcast simply for
posting that I was upset about matters very
similar to yours. This place is very dangerous
sometimes. No one can say a single thing here
without it having repricussions later. If you
make someone mad, chances are they have
BigCollector friends...and they'll make sure you
cant find a single thing ever again. It's not a
good thing, but it's unavoidable here. I KNOW no
one was trying to attack you intentionally. I
think there's a lot of folks here who could stand
to get out and take a walk once in a while
without breaking someone's head over a question
that others deem 'stupid'.
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