Being too forceful with something as delicate as
cels is rather foolish (and being too forceful
with something that isn't yours is always rude)
but I don't see what's wrong with helping yourself
in a store instead of pestering the salesperson.
Of course, if said shopper is rooting behind the
counter and other places where they shouldn't be
that's incredibly rude. But it seems to me if one
is just browsing instead of looking for something
in particular then bringing in the dealer would be
counterproductive. Especially if the dealer was
already engaged in a conversation with another
customer!
If the shopper is not fluent in the native
language, then I can see an even greater added
incentive for not engaging a saleperson. Some
people believe that it's always polite to try to
communicate, but other people believe it would be
polite not to annoy the salepeople with their
ineptness in the language if at all possible. I've
come across enough offduty salepeople complaining
about how they're always being asked to do simple
things that the customer should be able to
accomplish themselves that I always try to be as
self-sufficient as possible unless directly
approached. (And since my attention is sometimes
hard to get-- half the time I don't even respond
to my own name... it just doesn't click in that
"hey, that person is trying to talk to *me*!"-- I
usually give the benefit of the doubt whether
someone could be distracted/hard of hearing etc.)
I really don't see how the customer's grasp of the
language nor their motives for traveling has
anything to do with etiquette. It's always wise to
learn the rudiments of a language when one travels
afar, but sometimes that's not always possible. I
know if I ever go to Japan the most comprehensible
thing I'll be able to say is "Do you want to be
the seme or the uke?" ;p~ I know Spanish, French,
and Filippino (not to mention English, although
after my current brain meltdown this semester,
the only thing I fluently speak now is gibberish)
but when I tried to learn Japanese after getting
interested in anime, my head nearly imploded.
(Partly because my brain is just full after so
many years of schooling and partly because
Japanese seems 10x as hard as S/F/F ^^;;;)
I also know of people who fly to London to go
shopping, or fly to the USA only to see Disney
World or catch a few matinees on Broadway or go
shopping (for jeans... really.) If they're happy
with that (and their happiness isn't hampering
anyone else's happiness) then I'm happy for them. |