Geez Wendy...sounds like a tight pickle.  I've 
been there before and realized that being mean 
is not the way to go.  If you are mean to 
people, they will just stop doing business with 
you (which hurts them more than it hurts you).  
At one point I had Saiyanwolf mad at me cuz i 
was a little upset that she left out a bg from a 
cel that I purchased from her.  But we cleared 
things up (Thanks Saiyanwolf ^-^).  I also got 
Celga mad at me and they wont do ANY business 
with me.  So whichever you choose, make sure 
you're either a) not going to do business with 
them again or b) talk to someone else about how 
mean they are :-p

Patrick