Normally, if someone does something that 
irritates me, I pick option #1 or #2. If I say 
anything publically or not depends on two things: 
First, the level of my irritation, and second, my 
mood. If something irritates me when I'm in a 
general bad mood, I'm more likely to say something
about it.

So how important is it to you? If it's something 
that's really effecting your enjoyment of being 
with the group - or potentially effects a 
friendship - I would say something. Maybe not 
necessarily in public where someone might more 
easily perceive it as "egg" on someone's face. . .

But how you choses to say whatever you decide to 
say also depends on the "who". Is it one person - 
or maybe just two people - doing something 
irritating? Or is it a general trend?

Many Sharp Smiles,
--Drac