Hi all,

I have a slight dilemma and would like some 
feedback on this issue. Over the last couple 
months I've become pretty angry over what would 
be considered some minor (and maybe major) 
ethical issues I've noticed people doing. What 
they've done doesn't directly impact me (that is, 
it's not like I'm doing a cel deal with these 
people) but I'm irritated (and for once, I'm NOT 
talking about reselling!) 

So, the question is, if somebody does something 
that bugs you what of the following would you do?

1. just bite your tongue and get over it.
2. complain to close friends.
3. e-mail the person politely and explain why 
this behavior bugs you.
4. make vague allusions on the various cel forums 
and mailing lists about things that bug you "in 
general" hoping that person will get the hint.

This is rather a small community and I'm very 
conscious of what words can do. I've been doing 
number 1 so far and yet it's not working for me. 
I notice that whenever I post now on the forum 
the subtext is quite hostile. What should I do to 
purge this feeling without making a total ass of 
myself? (and btw, anonymous flaming is not an 
option at all for me).

Seethingly yours,

Wendy