Many guys in real life are so caught up in 
being "real men", or "manly men", which basically 
means: insensitive, doesn't communicate, isn't 
interested in romance, always has to be in 
control or in charge, etc. 

Many are genuinely nice, loyal, and kind - and 
most importantly, have no problem *showing* that 
they are. I love being able to believe that 
somewhere out there, there are guys who fight for 
love, loyalty, honor and truth.

And even when they're being *bad* somehow they're 
still incredibly sexy.