Yikes, I am chatty today... my third reply
here ;)
I can understand a lot of what has been said, but
for me, the answer lies a little in between.
No one, in my mind, is required by ethics or
protocal ("good manners") to respond to an
*unsolicited* offer (i.e., an offer on a personal
gallery cell). Especially so when there is a
clear disclaimer like the one Marisa and so many
of the people who create galleries post.
As a newbie, I understand all too well the
frustration of seeing "make an offer" on cells
being offered for sale trade. It takes some
experience and time to know what is an
appropriate price range. While I might know what
is the most I might be willing to pay, in our
consumer-driven society everyone hates to think
they will pay much more for something than it is
generally worth on the market. Even though you
might be willing to pay that if you have to, It
can leave you feeling somehow that you
were "ripped." Nevertheless, while ranges would
be nice, why should a person feel they have to
limit themselves? Setting a range, even a minimum
price, WILL affect the price they ultimately get,
and in volatile markets, like it seems DBZ and a
few other currently popular series are, someone
might get much more than they expect because of
rapid shifts in supply and demand. And why
shouldn't they get it? That's the "Whoo Hoo! My
Lotto number came out!" aspect of ANY form of
collecting.
For cells posted for trade/"make an offer,"
though, I believe that all offers in general
deserve a response. It is easy enough to set up a
notepad document with a few pre-written replies -
- examples:
1) Thank you for your offer, but I am
seeking a price much substantially higher than
your offer. (note, clear, but doesn't give
anything away)
2) Thank you for your offer, but it is
lower than the price range I am seeking.
3) Thank you for your offer, but I have
recieved higher offers already.
4) Thank you for your offer, but I have
already traded the cell.
It takes only a few seconds to hit reply, cut and
paste a pre-written answer, and click send. An
exception from this is, *of course* offers from
people who are known troublemakers or who are
ignoring the implications of a previous response
(i.e. offer $50, reply sorry, way way too low,
resend offer $75 -- free to ignore, the point has
been made. Re offer $150, well, maybe re-reply if
still way too low).
A second Caveat to this is if the Person notes
next to the cel (or top of the page) that offers
way too low will not be responded to, that
absolves them from responding to insignificant
offers, except perhaps if the offer expressess
cluelessness and a request for a response, in
which case a quikie response from above would be
the kind thing to do.
Finally, on a specific note, Marisa, you have
nothing to explain. From what I've seen, everyone
here who is here for love of the art respects
you. There will always be a few people who run
around slinging mud. They go away. A history of
good deeds and a good reputation among the long-
term players doesn't. It's really that simple.
Tim |