My apologies if I just end up restating what Yann 
said....

I always sign my posts with my e-mail address 
included, especially when responding to a flamer 
and trying to smooth out the situation.  
I feel that when one does not sign their posts 
while flaming then it is nothing more than an act 
of cowardice.  
Please, to all those flamers out there (you know 
who you are  ^.~), have you ever thought before 
typing? Do you reread your post before posting? 
Perhaps a little rewording could get your point 
across without it being so rude.  Perhaps you 
could get yourself taken seriously.
When your problem is with a person, why not e-
mail them privately?  In most cases it does not 
work out to get the forum involved.
By anonymously flaming, even though your identity 
is not known, you hurt your karma, intergrity, 
and honor.  
Why not take responsibility for your actions?  
Though still a child by age in the eyes of some 
forumn members, I long ago learned that to 
directly and maturely confront a situation is far 
more affective than to anonymously or immaturely 
complain and flame.
Who knows, by posting with your name, and posting 
politely, you may gain respect in the eyes of 
those who you are addressing.

Now, please understand that I am not out to flame 
flamers.  It is not my intention to start a 
fight, and I hope that none have taken it as 
such.  I'm a bit of a pacifist, and I believe 
that every person has it within them to resolve 
anything with kindess and a calm attitude.  It's 
easier and safer to swim when there are no 
rapids, right?  An odd way of saying it, but I'm 
tired and my vocabulary is slipping.  ^^;

If a previous (perhaps future, but I would hope 
not) flamer has anything to say in response to 
this I invite you to e-mail me privately.  

Thank you all for your patience and (hopefully) 
understanding  ^_^

Best Wishes,
Jenny
Kenshin no Miko