> In the state I live in it is 100% legal to post 
> private e-mails as long as either the sender or 
> the recipient posts it. 

It's not a question of legal or not legal. It's
a question of ethic, netiquette and what
can or can't be done on internet.

You should seriously consider reading the
RFC1855 : 
http://www.mcgill.ca/cc/access/netiquet.htm

Now to make things clear : Next time you post
someone private email here, whatever the reason, I 
will delete your mails.