I've never had something like that happen to me 
before. But nah, just ignore this kind of threat. 
It's common in the cel community. It even made 
some quit the hobby.

I know there are times that one outbids the other 
and loses the cel, which might have been a 
wishlist or whatever. But it's really a shame 
that the person started venting anger on another 
just because he/she couldn't have the cel.

The closest encounter I could ever think of was 
when I bought my Fujimi Symphony Orchestra cel, I 
accidentally came upon a site that mentioned the 
webmaster was also interested in that cel and the 
cel went for such a low price... it's kind of a 
pity and such...

Most cases, I received congrats on having such 
and such cels. It makes you feel good having it 
instead of feeling all the hate all around you 
when you have something that you cannot truly 
enjoy.

Yes, I do feel angry when I couldn't have the cel 
I wanted or whatever. But I was angry with ONLY 
myself:

"Why couldn't I place my bid faster?"
"Damn the slow traffic."
"I don't have that kind of money..."

Take it easy, it's always a give and take and all 
about luck.