WOW, I absolutely must say, I 100% agree with 
Tara on this (whooaaa, miracle! Hahah ^_~*)  

I think the opinion that people are only here to 
better their hauls is a really cold (albeit true)
thought.  It may be true in some ways...but I 
think that perspective fades really fast once 
you get close to people.  I know I have met some 
awesome people here, whom if I had a chance to 
meet in person, Id love to actually hang out 
with them aside from cels.  I have also made a 
few very close friends who Id probably invite to 
my wedding (whenever that happens, hah)...yup, 
they're just THAT cool XD~~~.  I have also 
wrapped my collecting days pretty much, but I 
wont every stop talking to the people I have 
met.  And as Tara said, that's the one thing 
that makes this hobby so incredibly hard to 
leave....the people!  (But...on the heavier 
hand, it's also the people that make you WANT to 
leave sometimes :P, but that's the way of the 
world in general, not just with cels)

About Pocket...there was once I time I didnt 
know about it either.  Someone anon wrote me 
with the address.  I cant remember how I got the 
new address either.  I ordered from them once, 
and it took almost a year to get my cels.  I 
swore Id never order from them again after 
that.  I know it feels horrid to have people not 
give you the address, but...that's just the way 
it goes.  I dont give it out because they ask 
people not to give it out.  They're obviously 
not a group who's equipped to deal with a large 
customer base (hence no emails, long waits).  I 
figure...they're providing a service to me...so 
I can provide one for them.  Its that simple. If 
they have this hard a time with the customer 
base they have now...what if it doubled?  Id be 
28 before I got another cel from them!  

I guess that's all I really have to offer :\  I 
know it doesnt help that "lonely" feeling people 
are getting by not knowing about the allmighty 
pocket...but there's nothing I can do about 
that.  The only thing left I can say, is that I 
find more awesome stuff on YJ everyday than I 
have ever seen at Pocket ^_^;;;