Must say I like yaoi, although I've not had 
nearly the exposure to it that I'd like. Also I 
don't mind the tenacle thing - I think its 
hilarious. 

From a vaguely psychological perspective - in my 
college course in human sexuality one of the 
things we learned is that actually a large 
percentage of women have erotic daydreams about 
being raped. Does this mean they WANT to be raped 
or that they in any way, shape, or form support 
it? HELL NO!!!! Of course not. There is one huge 
difference between being raped and having erotic 
thoughts about it: CONTROL.

When a woman has a daydream about it, roleplays 
it, watchs hentai, or whatever, they are 
completely in control. They are not being harmed, 
they are not being forced into anything. This 
allows them to view it as erotic rather then as a 
gross violation of their beings. 

Makes sense to me! And it provides an explanation 
to behaviors that would seemingly be contrary to 
one another.


Jennifer