For flame purposes I am not going to reveal my
identity here. However, I have been accused of
being a "hoarder". This is perhaps the worst part
about cel collecting however, I do not let it
detract me from my hobby. Others are jealous of
what I own, I understand. But that isn't why I
collect. I collect the cels I do because I like
them, I have the means, and they mean something
to me - each and every one of them. I even turn
down cels that I don't like because, shock-shock-
horror, I don't desire every single cel from one
series!
It's rediculous how you can't have more than a
dozen cels from one series without being accused
of being something called a "hoarder". It's a
shame that such bitterness exists in a community
where we share the same hobby. It really makes me
pity those people who attempt to upset others by
flaming them out of such jealousy and anger. I
have a tough skin but others out there have even
gone Blackhole because of such flaming. The only
reason I won't go Blackhole is because some
people like to know what cels are out there and I
would feel worse hiding everything away.
I really believe that everyone has the right to
collect whatever cels they want. There are some
people out there who have more money to spend on
cels than other people, but that's just life and
they're doing nothing wrong. If we put it into
perspecive - some people have more money to spend
on a house/car than other people. It's just the
way life is! I've been outbid on many cels on
auction purely because I feel the price is too
high and I personally would be uncomfortable
spending that much on the cel. But for someone
else, the price was right. Each to their own.
I also believe that you can have an extensive
collection and be nice to other collectors. There
must be some kind of stereotypical assumption
that people with a large collection must be
really greedy and selfish. Not me, though. I have
made some close friends in this hobby and have
even given cels to them as gifts as well as
helped them out with cel-related problems. I am
also friends with people who collect the same
series I do and we compromise on auctions. I am
not friends with any one of them because I want
something from them, but because they are good-
hearted people and we get on well. Just like the
friends I have outside of cel collecting.
We have to weed out the good people from the bad
in this hobby, and in life, but it's worth it.
^_^ You really just have to ignore the people who
are nasty and rest easy knowing that you're one
of the good guys. |