Defending someone should always be based on 
facts, fact is: HER insults ("I had a bad x-mas, 
so I blame it on you", in short) were off-topic 
as well.

And in what point is SHE respectful? I cannot 
afford or think of a way to respect ppl who don't 
respect me. That's life, wake up. Bite and be 
bitten.

Give me ONE reason to treat someone with respect 
while not getting te same in return, then maybe I 
can afford to regard you as a worthy human, not 
what my cats drop in their litter pans.