Well I feel alot better now about doing
things that way.
I can certainly see if someone has a legit 
problem and needs more time, with things
like that I will gladly give them more time.
Though with the last excuse or 'reason' it just
makes me a little annoyed, 'why should I buy 
something I don't need?' O_o I can't really take 
that as reason to cancel an order...just because 
they don't need those items anymore?? That's not 
my fault their other deal didn't work out *grr*

 But thanks to all who replied:)

Megan.

*who is now happy that she has her Eries cel* 
Thanks Nick^^