I don't think there's anything wrong with not
selling to previous "drop outs."
If someone demonstrates an inability to follow
through with a transaction -- whether it's because
they don't know how to properly manage their
finances, or they simply aren't mature enough to
keep their word -- then I don't see how they can
expect to be taken seriously the next time around.
Many people do have legitimate reasons for not
being able to complete a transaction.
Unfortunately, untrue excuses have become so
common that it's nearly impossible to tell a
"real" excuse from a faked one. If everyone who
told me there was a death in the family was
telling the truth, then the population of the US
would be in serious trouble. I'm sure some --
maybe many -- of the people who told me this
weren't lying. But how do I know which ones?
Sadly, now anyone who offers an excuse instead of
payment, even if it's legitimate and truthful,
must be prepared to assume that the seller will
always doubt them, and will probably be reluctant
to sell to them in the future.
It's unfair, but it's the way of the world. Trust
on the internet is virtually nonexistant thanks to
those crying wolf.
Wow, this is longer than I meant it to be. Oops!
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