True, when you post on a public forum you open
yourself up for attack, but lately things seem to
be getting out of hand. I think if anything the
recent posts about Avery have brought that to
light. That should have been a simple "Oh god
Avery, that's horrible. I hope you feel better."
Instead it turned into "My God!! She's bismirched
the honor of Queen Debbye!!" I think Shawnna was
more commenting on that attitude more than
anything else. There DO seem to be some people on
the forum who think a bit more highly of
themselves than they have right to. And I didn't
see anywhere in Shawnna's post a reference to
a "secret gang". She simply said that there are
some obvious lines in the sand. And before I get
stomped on for this, I am not trying to step on
toes here. It just seems that a lot of collectors
DO act like they belong to some kind of special
club that only people of "proper" breeding can be
a part of. This IS supposed to be a friendly
hobby for everyone. And maybe Shawnna and Avery
aren't intentionally being singled out, but the
fact of the matter is that they do seem to catch
a lot more heat for things than other people do.
Maybe this is because they are a lot more vocal,
but it's still uncalled for. I thought the
purpose of this forum was for cel collectors to
get together and be among friends and exchange
info, SUCH AS WHERE THEY CAN FIND A PARTICULAR
CEL THEY WANT. The fact is, that when people post
just such info, other people on the forum JUMP on
them for it. I think that's what Shawnna's
argument is about, not "why is everybody always
picking on me", like you're making it out to be.
-Sterling |