Why? That's my only question. Why must we, in a
community of people who are supposed to act at
least civilized, go over the basic principles of
humanity as if we were pre-schoolers. It's not
that hard, people....if we all treat eachother
with a degree of respect (and remember that hey,
there is someone on the other end of the computer
screen), it shouldn't be too hard. Why must it
automatically be Shawnna's fault, Yann, that she
is being used as a scapegoat? Personally, I don't
see exactly what she did wrong. Yes, she's
melodramatic (hey, she's just being who she
is...I admire her for it), but she never defamed
anyone. She never insulted, yelled at, or in any
way personally attacked or hurt anyone. As far as
I can see...she was just being herself. I really
think she's an angel to have put up with so much
already...
It's that age-old problem with people...if they
think that they can walk over someone, they will.
It's human nature.
Again, I say we should examine ourselves if we
have created an atmosphere where this sort of
thing is OK.
I can understand where you are coming from, Yann,
and everyone...but if this type of thing happens,
the blame does not go to one or the other, but to
all of us. It's a problem with the tiny little
society we have created...it's crumbling. This
type of thing SHOULDN'T happen...I can see no way
where the treatment that Shawnna has recieved is
condonable. If she really annoys you so much
(which I don't see why she would, but perhaps I
just have taste)...then the decent, human thing
to do is keep your mouth shut, or at least don't
plaster it around the forum.
-Misha-chan |