I agree with JP entirely. Just out-and-out calling
them junk does not show a lot of respect for your
feelings. My thinking is that's just step one- he
or she probably figure they'll wean you off that
"junk" eventually. My wife likes plenty of things
I have no interest in, but I certainly believe she
has a right to like what she wants. Frankly, I'd
dump this person, because it's just going to get
worse later. She/He does not have to like cels,
but by the same token, she/he should be decent
enough to realize that telling you that is really
unkind, and fairly ugly. A good partner
sees the positive, and delights in the fact that
you are happy.
Blair |