I have seen a few collector's go since I've been
back in collecting..... The main reason was
financial stress....but the second main reason
was the....uhhh......(hamster runs on wheel and
searches for best words to use without sounding
rude....and fails)....uhh, the sheer
rudeness/gall/pestering from other collectors.
Yup. Lots of horror stories I've heard from
other people, making them want to just drop it
all. Ontop of getting sniped on dreamcel
auctions, getting no sleep, dealing with non-
payers, liars, whiners, getting cels ruined in
the mail, or lost in the mail. These are all
reasons to make one seriously step back and
ask.. "WHY am I doing this?"
As for me personally..the top reason Id leave
(and am leaving for a bit) is the financial
strain. I collect Watase Yuu art....and the
competition is getting too fierce. I make (made)
a very good amt of money at my job, and still I
wasnt able to keep up with the prices on the
cels. I remember I used to have tons of money, I
could go on trips, buy clothes, buy things for my
house. Now.......nothing. I have a nice cel
collection....but Im generally a lot more edgy
now than I was before I started collecting. I
dont get enough sleep, I spend too much time at
work surfing for updates, I dont do much art
anymore.....blah blah blah. Id have to say tho,
that even more than the financial strain is the
politics involved in this hobby that's driving me
away slowly. I have met a lot of people....and
some of the things I've had to deal with, you
just wouldnt beleive. Makes me question where
humanity is going I tell you.... I have seen a
few people leave the hobby, including a very good
friend. Most of them were either fed up with
other collectors, tired of being broke, or just
plain satisfied with what they had, and didnt
want anymore. I will be stopping for a bit til
my job becomes stable, but in the end...it's the
emotional and financial burdens of the hobby that
make me want to skedaddle. I love my cels to
death, and Im grateful for the friends I've
made....but I also miss the old me....back when I
wasnt pissed all the time over what someone said
to me regarding x cel I sold last year, or
missing a dreamcel, or not sleeping enough....oiy
vey.....=_= |