Just going to throw out some thoughts. None of 
them are arguments, just some thoughts that come 
to mind. Well, speaking of real woman and anime 
girls, I am old fashioned (in some ways, not all-
I can be hentai too in a clean cute way. *grins*) 
and feminine. I do what I want of course and not 
because anyone says so. So, not all anime girls 
are just myth, real girls can be that way too, 
just some not to the extreme and some well, yes, 
let their guys walk all over them. Watch Jenny 
Jones or a talk show and you'll know what I mean. 
^^;; To me, feminity is a state in two seperates. 
On one hand it can be what you wear or if you 
wear pretty clothes etc, then the other hand it 
also is a personality and well, who you are 
inside. Me for example, really hate to wear pants 
and usualy wear dresses because I feel 
so "womanly" but I'm not "girly", just like to be 
feminine and yes let a guy open the door for me 
and thank him. Anime girls are a lot of the times 
feminine, but people think that is only a myth 
when a lot of the times it really isn't. Real 
girls can be that way. Depends on who you meet 
and what girls you like or hang out with. Me, I'm 
bit mixture of Belldandy and something clean 
hentai I have not figured out yet. I think it's a 
trait all women can have, some of it is lost 
somewhere during time...who knows. Up to women to 
be or not. Example: I see my man well to be 
treated well and taken care of. I think a lot of 
the times women "Want" to be like Belldandy but 
never get the chance, so maybe anime shows a bit 
of the woman's heart lost in this big world? Just 
a thought. Sometimes anime girls are overdone in 
that area for effect but it's cute. I tend to 
pamper my guy, let him know in fact what he means 
to me, do things for him, Belldandish, like 
cleaning, mending-etc. Do things for him because 
I enjoy it. I just don't give him money (that 
goes to cels:) or let him walk all over me. Some 
girls are like that and I guess some times it 
can't be seen unless you get to know a person to 
see what they are made of. I think when you 
truely love someone, you tend to want to do that 
for them because you love them too, not because 
they are ideal or were made that way. I think 
love brings out the best qualties in a person. 
I'd do anything for him, and want to protect him 
with my life and kick anyone's arse whoever 
treated him like crap, but don't let him walk all 
over me in return. I want to treat him with 
respect and honor and because he deseves it in my 
eyes like maybe Belldandy feels for her guy? Who 
knows how any anime girl is unless you got to 
know them inside and out and they behave around 
you really. Just hard to find or sometimes 
everyone is looking in all the wrong places or 
expect women to be like anime girls or not. I try 
not to get into little obsessed cliques, because 
it somehow to me and myself ruins my realism on 
life and people. I do admit being a bit obsessive 
at first when I got into anime. I still am 
obsessed over cels. That's another story.