No... It wasn't the arguments for unconditional 
love (you get that in Slayers with Lina even 
though Gourry's such an idiot, as well as a lot 
of other anime) or the femininity, 'cuz there's a 
TON of anime girls that are more feminine than 
real women could ever be...  The real arguments 
were waaaaaay more scary.  

Like lets see.. well the most disturbing thing 
for me was all the guys who were like 'the ideal 
girlfriend is one who pampers you and spends all 
her time/money/effort indulging your every whim' 
and thennn I asked about personality, which it 
turns out doesn't matter so long as she cooks, 
cleans, does your laundry, and does it while 
looking pretty...so then I pointed out that 
what... they've kissed maybe once in the oav and 
movie?  and it turns out that doesn't really 
matter either, because a girl like that is so 
submissive, she'll do anything you tell her to in 
a situation like that.  I think the quote that 
comes to mind is:

"Dude! my friend has a girlfriend, and she like 
spends all her money on him and buys him stuff! 
She's like the perfect girlfriend!"

So here's my field test when meeting male anime 
fans:  "So, who's your favorite anime character?" 
If mention Belldandly, back out of room slowly, 
make break for nearest exit, lest he try to get 
me to participate in some of the cosplaying that 
gets videotaped and sold on ebay...
If mentions Asuka or other non-megamisama 
characters, relax and chat a while.

As for other girls... I think the Yaoi fetish is 
more disturbing than an electra complex.  I just 
joined a Weiss Kreuz mailing list and my mailbox 
is flooded with kinky stories of Youji x Omi x 
Ken x Shuldig x.... even the parodies... 0_o

^_^ By the way, I have no problem posting my pic 
if anyone thinks I'm being too judgemental...I 
admit to wearing almost all black today, but eh, 
that's just coincidence.