So here's the story:
I started bidding on YJ like 2-3 months ago, I
asked my friends if they wanted anything at the
beginning and I will bid for them on their behalf
to save on shipping for myself. One of those
friends have asked me to bid on cels for her ever
since, I do it on a favor base so I really don't
ask for anything in return, I've even gotten up
at 6 in the morning to bid on some of her "dream"
cels, I quoted "dream" because she has MANY cels
that she wants even though she said she only has
a few she must have. Recently, there was a cel
that I couldn't bid for her so I gave her one of
my contact's email so she could get her "dream
cel" I thought i was doing a nice thing and a one
time thing but since then, (its only been a month
maybe) she has asked him for 3-4 other "dream
cels" I've hinted many times that favors can
become annoying no matter how nice the other
person is but she keeps saying "he is nice and he
is willing to do it, plus i'm giving him quite a
nice comission.." and she saids she would stop
until a "dream cel" shows up but of course she
hasn't. After like the 2nd or 3rd time she asked
him for a "dream cel" I've stopped asking him for
anything because I just feel bad at asking him
since I know he is already bidding on stuff for
her, plus i've always kept him as a "dream cel"
bidder...in case someday my ultimate dream cel
pops up (which i only have ONE) and he is also my
contact for other friends who might have a dream
cel pop up unexpectedly some day but now I feel
bad at asking him for anything. I told her to
stop asking him to bid and use celga if she must
but she just emails him asking if its okay.
Am i just being anal or am I right that she has
overstepped her "favors?" I was so fed up i told
her im quitting cel bidding, which I am because
this is just too much for me.
anyways give me your two cents so i know if i'm
being a bitch or does anyone agree with me or
gone through a smiliar experience |