CRIPES!!!!  I did not say manners were a bad thing - I just
said that, lately, we seem to be having too many arguments
over whether someone was rude or not.  Different people are
offended, hurt, whatever, by different things.

MY WHOLE POINT IS THIS:  I did not think Oion's post saying 
why she did not bid on the cel offensive, but I did think
the un-named response to it was rude. This is MY opinion, 
and I certainly recognize that others have other opinions.

Here's a suggestion - if you think someone is being rude to
someone else, IGNORE IT!!  Let the person who was "insulted"
respond if they want to.  We are here, I thought, to talk 
about cels - and sometimes we don't have glowing things to
say.  We are NOT here to talk about who was rude to who, and
what is rude and what is not.  I know I've contributed to
this discussion, but I'm butting out now!

Slam me all you want, but I have a right to my opinion, and
a right to voice it.  I do not condone rudeness or poor 
manners, but I also don't think we need to mother the other
posters when we think they've crossed the line. If they've
really crossed it, and have been unforgivably rude or
offensive, then its up to Yann to deal with it, not us.

Az, shutting up on this topic now!