Personally, I don't think there was any flaming going on at all.
There was a conversation regarding a person's integrity.
There was no name calling or anything like that; it was all
civilized and everything.
I think that some people are just way too sensitive.
If a person wants to stop a discussion, all they have to do
is stop posting. If people post, it will just add fuel to
the conversation.
I remember when Abdel was discussed and Dacol was being discussed
then it was Melissa and people kept adding more and more
comments and the persons discussed kept defending themselves.
If the facts stated are not true, or the intentions of the person are
pure then the person discussed shouldn't have to defend themselves.
The conversation will burn out really quick this way, as there
won't be anyting to fuel it. And of course the person discussed
knows the truth in their heart and that's all that matters.
Though, there is nothing wrong with a good discussion and if
there is a person that is a problem, there is nothing wrong
with warning others.
This is just my own personal advice and opinion.
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