I'm not saying it's never my fault. Forgetting
to ship that one sketch set is. I'm not a
machine. Getting my foot broken is 50% my fault,
too (because, big confession here, he broke it
in - excessive - self defense...).
But it's nobody's fault (except the shipping
vehuicle's users) when an item gets lost or
delaid during shipment. Neither mine, nor the
buyer's, but it's being made MY fault and as I
said, injustice pisses me off to no end. I don't
care about ppl disliking me - I close a browser
window and the annoyance is over and I have
wonderful friends in real life. BUT I do care
about my Paypal account (and my comfort) being
locked by some buyer's lack of patience. As you
may have noticed, I like money a lot.
Btw, I don't think it's correct to be making
European cultures look inferior compared to your
own just because you don't agree with my
opinions. It's nothing to do with Europe, it's
to do with ME and the buyer.
Understanding and communication: do I lack that?
HOW could I understand a buyer can't pay within
schedule if they don't TELL me? If someone tells
me they have trouble paying, FINE! But I can't
take people having me wait without telling me
why or how long. As for communication, what else
except "Payment received, item will soon be
shipped" is there to tell them? When they ask
about where their item is, I say "Will ship it
then and then" or "Shipped". What else..?
As for my respecting the world, believe me, I
do. I just don't respect ppl having me wait for
my rightfully earned money and then complain
about slow shipping to ME. Plus, I like feelings
to come from both sides, you know. And not
respecting my payment deadline is not respecting
me. Three things are me and I am three things:
money, sleeping and Mii-cat. Take one of them
away from me and I'll raise hell. Really, I'm
all sweet and debonair as long as I have a
reason, but pushing my patience is shortening
your longevity. And certain buyers and Woof did.
Goo ny |