You don't know the person who bought it.  Don't 
assume that the buyer doesn't give a crap, has 
money to throw away, and bought it just despite 
you.  Perhaps it would've been better to post a 
nice plea stating that this is your wishlist cel 
and hope he or she would be willing to sell it.  
But it's probably too late now with this rant.  
This is something that happens to all collectors, 
not just you; you've got to suck it in and move 
on.