Heeeey... I think I read the "she looks
constipated" remark. But honestly, I giggled
about it.
No seriously, I think, you're overreacting. I
too, had such stuff on my first cel. They called
me crazy for spending so much money for some pic,
as they said. But look.
Some like it, others don't. You have to tolerate
all opinions, positive and negative ones - unless
ofcours, they're obviously meant to be offensive!
Then CHOPPEM DOWN with words like "And how come
mom didn't find a babysitter for YOU?" or stuff.
Something to put the person down in a smart way.
Don't be discouraged because of some negative
remarks, take them as what they are (or should
absolutely be): other ppl's opinions that don't
lower the personal value of your cel or your
life.
Also, when posting to a forum, you should be
expecting replies, and not only cheers. If you
don't want any, just put the cel on your site for
sole display.
I bought a cel from Taro for 428 bucks. My money
for 2 months of pocket money and all christmas
money (200 bucks). Ppl call me insane. So what?
I'm SO looking forward to it, and my reply to
them is: "Okay, but to me, it's worth it" and "I
know I am insane, everybody sais that". Be cool.
Or even... if it's meant to hurt... be ARROGANT!
Be all Naga (know her?). I got that habit of her
reacting by acting superiorly: "OOoooooohoho,
what a cuty!"
Know what I mean? Be happy with what you get,
don't let your joy be ruined by some less
cheering remarks. Be open to other ppl's opinions
or simply ignore them.
You know, when the rant about a certain... way to
pay my cel - PPL, DO NOT START OVER AGAIN!!! - I
had heart throbbing whenever I accessed the
forum. But I learned to simply be aaaall arrogant
or better, calm and cynical.
By stating how much you're hurt and that some
ridiculously unimportant remarks have chased you
out will not change them, it will only make you
part with a forum which once meant fun to you and
leave the impression of a weakling to some people
you shouldn't wanna make laugh. NEVER let other
ppl's remarks discourage you!
I'm not saying expressing your feelings is wrong.
But I read your previous post and came to the
conclusion that those remarks shouldn't be
hurting that much. Snarl "Fuck you!" at the
screen and shake it off, you have a life and
you're meant to be happy with the cel you got,
not them.
You know, I was pretty hurt when some moron's
first idea was to reply "Another cel bought with
the money you stole?" By saying this without any
more text, but only a provoking (obviously being
meant to BE), that person prooved to only be out
for offence. But guess what? Such suckers
shouldn't be worth as much energy as I
unfortunately wasted on them and that you are
wasting. And besides energy, you're also allowing
them to chase you off. Are they worth your loss
of fun? NO!
So, stay here and be happy with your cel and
don't give much more than a f*ck about what
others say!
And... they might just be jealous^^
See ya again here,
Shura-chan :)
It's winter, but there's one sun that always
shines^^ |