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Re: Good-bye (more) (Thu Dec 6 20:02:31 2001 )
shura-chan [View profile ]
http://geocities.com/de_Kanal/Mylinks.html
de_Kanal@hotmail.com

Heeeey... I think I read the "she looks 
constipated" remark. But honestly, I giggled 
about it. 
No seriously, I think, you're overreacting. I 
too, had such stuff on my first cel. They called 
me crazy for spending so much money for some pic, 
as they said. But look.
Some like it, others don't. You have to tolerate 
all opinions, positive and negative ones - unless 
ofcours, they're obviously meant to be offensive! 
Then CHOPPEM DOWN with words like "And how come 
mom didn't find a babysitter for YOU?" or stuff. 
Something to put the person down in a smart way.

Don't be discouraged because of some negative 
remarks, take them as what they are (or should 
absolutely be): other ppl's opinions that don't 
lower the personal value of your cel or your 
life. 
Also, when posting to a forum, you should be 
expecting replies, and not only cheers. If you 
don't want any, just put the cel on your site for 
sole display. 
I bought a cel from Taro for 428 bucks. My money 
for 2 months of pocket money and all christmas 
money (200 bucks). Ppl call me insane. So what? 
I'm SO looking forward to it, and my reply to 
them is: "Okay, but to me, it's worth it" and "I 
know I am insane, everybody sais that". Be cool. 
Or even... if it's meant to hurt... be ARROGANT! 
Be all Naga (know her?). I got that habit of her 
reacting by acting superiorly: "OOoooooohoho, 
what a cuty!"
Know what I mean? Be happy with what you get, 
don't let your joy be ruined by some less 
cheering remarks. Be open to other ppl's opinions 
or simply ignore them. 
You know, when the rant about a certain... way to 
pay my cel - PPL, DO NOT START OVER AGAIN!!! - I 
had heart throbbing whenever I accessed the 
forum. But I learned to simply be aaaall arrogant 
or better, calm and cynical.

By stating how much you're hurt and that some 
ridiculously unimportant remarks have chased you 
out will not change them, it will only make you 
part with a forum which once meant fun to you and 
leave the impression of a weakling to some people 
you shouldn't wanna make laugh. NEVER let other 
ppl's remarks discourage you! 

I'm not saying expressing your feelings is wrong. 
But I read your previous post and came to the 
conclusion that those remarks shouldn't be 
hurting that much. Snarl "Fuck you!" at the 
screen and shake it off, you have a life and 
you're meant to be happy with the cel you got, 
not them. 

You know, I was pretty hurt when some moron's 
first idea was to reply "Another cel bought with 
the money you stole?" By saying this without any 
more text, but only a provoking (obviously being 
meant to BE), that person prooved to only be out 
for offence. But guess what? Such suckers 
shouldn't be worth as much energy as I 
unfortunately wasted on them and that you are 
wasting. And besides energy, you're also allowing 
them to chase you off. Are they worth your loss 
of fun? NO!

So, stay here and be happy with your cel and 
don't give much more than a f*ck about what 
others say! 

And... they might just be jealous^^

See ya again here,
Shura-chan :)

It's winter, but there's one sun that always 
shines^^



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