Just want to say that of course everyone took it
with anger and outrage or just did reply because
you named a dealer's name. If you meant every
dealer, then why name names or say Taro more than
once and add them into the title of the post? Not
taking sides, but just giving some help for
future ref.: Next time don't pick out one person
and name them. How would you feel if someone did
that to you? Embarassed perhaps and upset too,
right? Dunno if you are new to this board or just
been here for a while, but well, some of us are
just a bit tired of some of the stuff. We don't
know if you are new, or just having a bad upset
day and took it out on some dealer and now feel
bad about it, which it seems in this response
post you made and everyone makes mistakes. I was
a bit shocked by the post but won't hold a grudge
and spend my energy in that, so just hopefully
after this people can move on, no matter what the
motive behind their first post was. You picked
them out, which is sorta nasty, so of course,
people are going to respond that way, even if it
wasn't meant to be that way. In person, maybe it
would not get taken the wrong way, (who knows?)
but on a forum board, be careful what you type
because it's hard to explain in detail exactly
what you mean if you were trying to not pick them
out and chose your words or names carefuly. Don't
name any names or pick one out as an example. I
don't know what would have happened if you didn't
name names, it might have been not as bad, or it
may still have. I don't know-this forum is
unpredictable, so if you were trying not to pick
them out, just be cautious next time. And let us
all move on from this. I can't speak for anyone
else, but I don't hate you with a vengence for
something and if you feel you made a mistake,
hopefully in this season people will forgive you
and well, we all can stay here and be happy and
just get back to cels. Hugs all, move on, say
your sorries, we learn from our mistakes. Well,
there are no mistakes in life, only lessons.
My suggestion: Instead of ranting on a forum go
grab a punching bag and vent your anger or to a
best friend. Something I've learned to do and it
helps and well, next warning, if you don't want
an outcry response. I didn't have the time to
read all the posts response, but a few. Anyway,
take care all and just don't spend too much time
on anger and being made or writing other posts on
that you didn't mean anything. Just let it go.
Relax, enjoy life and cels. If you don't
understand prices, ask or check out sites that
can help you understand. Some places can be high,
but well, there are reasons for that. I know
dealers pay that price, more when they have to or
lower a price themselves, plus the time and
effort to bring us the cels-they do all the work.
We should just thank all the dealers for their
efforts. Anyway, this no-name person did write a
somewhat (I think) appology...? Maybe that's not
the right term, but it seems they do feel bad,
even though they hold some anger at the prices
still and what we might pay for them. Anyway, our
business. So, let us move on. An the comment
about finding cheaper prices-let us be the judge
of that please. We don't need anyone telling us
the prices we pay are too high or not. When we
buy a cel, some of us and most of us know the
prices at other dealers too and when to buy or
not to. |